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Relationship Trust Issues !

Why do people have trust issues in a relationship? People have trust issues for a lot of reasons one is because people lie. For instance when in a relationship if there’s trust issues most likely the relationship wouldn’t last cause the male or female would assume you are cheating all the time and would be clocking your every move. And this would be the down fall in the relationship. When a female or male think you’re cheating the first thing they do is check your facebook, twitter, oovoo, or any other social network. But most men wouldn’t emit that they were on your page checking your stuff cause some don’t want to show how much they really care for you.

A way you know it’s a trust issues problem when your boyfriend or girlfriend is asking to see you phone to see who you be texting or calling. The reason why people have trust issues is because their past relationship their trust was abused. So now when they get into a new relationship they would automatically assume that person would lie to them too so they won’t trust them from the start. Trust issues can also leave you lonely or push someone away that’s really care abut you. This will happen because if a person is pouring their heart out to you and you don’t care or ignore their feelings for you they will start to give u if you don’t begin believe the things you say.

Trust issues can be depressing too cause even when you want to believe and trust that person it’s still something in your heart telling you not to trust him or her. Also when you don’t have trust in a relationship people hold back on how they really feel cause there scared that they are going to get hurt. So if you have trust issues be assure if your going to be in a relationship at least try to give that person a chance to mess up before you don’t trust him or her.